Napa Valley is our favorite setting for weddings and the venue list is endless. From sprawling beautiful Private Estates to stunning Hotels and Wineries. We created a list of some of our most favorites.

Beaulieu Gardens

It truly doesn’t get any better than a French Inspired property right in the middle of Napa Wine Country. This beautiful private estate is managed by the impeccable Paula Le Duc Fine Catering & Events. Not only are the well manicured gardens and stunning home the perfect setting, but the dinner under the old oak tree canopy is unlike any other property.

 Let’s not forget the photo opportunities on this property are endless.

Let’s not forget the photo opportunities on this property are endless.

Photography: Vicki Grafton

Black Swan

This is another breathtaking private estate. There is nothing like the whimsical weeping willows

that sway over the gorgeous lake. This venue has the most magical feeling the minute you step foot on the property. After the ceremony guest will make their way through the vineyard to the lower level of the home’s yard to cocktail hour on the lawn. Once it is time for dinner the guests are welcomed to the upper level where they will dine under olive trees and dance under the stars.

What sets this property apart from any other venue is that the entire property is yours for the day.

 Photographer:  Carlie Statsky

Photographer: Carlie Statsky

Vintage Estate

This property is a beautiful setting right in downtown Yountville. The Vintage Estate has so many different venues on their huge property. All your out of town guests can stay at the hotel and not have to worry about transportation. They have the Pavilion, the Barrel Room, the Vineyard and coming in 2019 the Social. This property is a beautiful blank canvas and can lend itself to any design we could dream up.


The expansive property of Meadowood is perfect for a wedding weekend. The croquet lawn is the perfect place to start your weekend with a friendly competition and take photos of your guests in their strike dress code of all white. For your ceremony there are a few options depending on the look you want and your guest count. Wether you love the idea of a big tent, an intimate dinner under bistro lights or an indoor fete this venue allows you to choose. No matter what you pick each setting is stunning.

 Photo Credit:  Edgeswed

Photo Credit: Edgeswed

As wedding planners, we are always thrilled when couples choose us to create their special day. We become so involved with one of the most important days in a couple's life, and in the blink of an eye, they are saying "I do." This intimate planning process allows us to really get to know people, and we cherish every moment they want to share with us along their wedding journey. In the end we always hope to call them good friends!


In the spirit of embracing these moments, we wanted to share the love story and some beautiful engagement photos of our couple Lily & Charles.

With Lily and Charles, their love can withstand thousands of miles. These two met during a summer internship in Hong Kong and became good friends through the creation of a "lunch club." With a little persistence, spontaneity, and only two weeks left together, Charles finally had the opportunity to ask Lily out before she would return to the United States. 

Their first date, and most cherished memory together, was straight out of a movie. Charles and Lily stayed up all night chatting at Victoria Peak in Hong Kong. Just before the break of dawn, Charles took Lily to a special isolated spot on the Peak that had a breathtaking panoramic view of the island, where they watched the sun emerge from the horizon and the city gradually come to life.  Not long after, they made their way to the southern beaches of Hong Kong and enjoyed a relaxing brunch at a seaside restaurant. 

When I asked Charles when he knew Lily was the one, he responded, "I mean... why else would I throw myself into a 8135-mile long-distance relationship 2 weeks before we separated?" Since then it has been nine long and happy years. Lily can't wait to finally move in together and have her best friend to come home to everyday!

We can't wait to make their special day come to life! 

XO Bustle 

Photos by: Vicki Grafton Photography

When Lena and William first hired us they let us know they wanted to play off the venues true beauty and if you have never been to Beaulieu Gardens let me just tell you it is the most romantic enchanted garden that transports you to France the moment you step foot on this luxury property.

When creating the design we knew Lena loved neutral colors and romantic textures, so we had Valley Flora create low lush arrangements with the most full and soft blooms. We alternated the tables with the arrangements and tables with garlands for a not so match match look and more of an elegant dinner party.

We carefully selected each rental in keeping with the overall look and feel with white chargers and gold flatware. One of the most unique things about this wedding is that the bridesmaids wore white and so did the bride.


Vendors involved:

Floral: Valley Flora

Catering: Paula Le Duc Fine Catering

Venue: Beaulieu Gardens

Band: Elan Artists

Photographer: Jessica Burke

Austin and Caitlin's wedding embraced the early colors of fall and the late rays of summer's sun. In a field located just outside their family's home a billowy structure floated above the reception area. Colors of dark ruby, eucalyptus, pale corals and gold graced the tables. When the sun set, the reception kicked into full swing under October's starry night sky. It was truly a beautiful and romantic evening! 

Photos by

Custock Photography


XOXO Bustle

Happy Monday! We found ourselves playing the 90's music channel on the way to a venue site this morning, giggling about how we could remember a specific place or memory with each song that came on. We had way too much fun while creating more memories!

Speaking of memories - priceless, right? A memory is defined as something remembered from the past; a recollection. They can be held in our minds, through pictures, experiences or a 90's love song. Memories are what we hold onto forever, that often make us happy and fulfilled. They are what our couples cherish after their wedding day through thoughtful, candid photos, the fast moving lens of a videographer or a verbal story from one of their guests. We encourage our couples to relish in each and every moment, enjoy the planning process and experience each celebration to its fullest.

Recently, we read snippets from a journal a bride wrote in 1955 - absolutely in awe! Capturing raw emotions through an old fashioned pen to paper, nothing more authentic than that. Coincidentally, one of our brides was gifted a journal from her aunt asking to put herself to the task of journaling every memory of her engagement; venue visits, wedding dress shopping, food tastings, engagement parties etc. Essentially it will be a gift back to yourself as you read and re-read it throughout the years giving yourself the opportunity to relive the emotions you felt during those special moments. The beauty of pen to paper is that its timeless, will never go out of style, and will be carefully handed down through the generations.

Wishing you all a memorable week! XOXO Bustle 

Journal | Smythson 


Check out Karli and Todd's wedding feature on Grey Likes Weddings

Last May, Bustle had the pleasure of working with Karli and Todd, planning a desert wedding for the ages. Incredible dance moves and little personal details filled the room at the Parker Pam Springs. It was quite the funky fresh evening!

This wedding was geometrics and glitter galore. From beginning to end (yes, even before dinner started) the dance floor was overflowing with people.  Above everyone’s shimmies and shakes was our beloved paper gem chandelier. This piece was made with love and a lotta' caffeine!

If there is one word we heard this couple say more often than anything else, it was TUSHIES (so cute!). We surprised the couple with a little dance floor motivation, not that they needed it, to dance your tushies off! We love the little details that make each wedding special, so we try to sneak them into the design as much as possible.

The details continue, with their love of tequila and Karli’s obsession with cute lil’ pigs. I can say with some confidence, these funky fresh details only come together once in a life time. Karli and Todd’s wedding was a blast and so unique to them. #funkyfreshattheparker

Photos by Heather Kincaid

XOXO Bustle

Happy Monday! Fresh off the weekend, and recapping our favored eats & sips were definitely a topic of today's team meeting.

One of our most adorned parts of what we do is being able to design the wedding of our clients dreams. Drawing up details and creating moments that are special and unique to each of our couples is one of our favorite pleasures. One detail that can give your guests a piece of personality is: speciality cocktails. While guests can still be offered an open bar, featuring a speciality cocktail gives the personal statement that every wedding needs.

We are loving the new approach to wedding libations as vendors are starting to be more innovative and creative when working with clients on creating that perfect pour. Sourcing their ingredients from local & organic orchards, gardens and farms to create fresh & unique flavor combinations.

Tomorrow is Valentine's Day - the perfect day to experiment a cocktail for a date night at home. Who knows, you may end up using it for your wedding.

Cheers to you, and inspiring yourself to do something new this week! 

Happy Valentine's Day - XOXO Bustle

| Photos are from some of our 2016 weddings |

Photography | upper left: Em the Gem, bottom left: Heather Kincaid, upper middle: Heather Kincaid, bottom middle left/right: Anni Graham, bottom right: Heather Kincaid, top right: Anni Graham

We are so grateful for all this amazing rain, but we can't help but dream of summer's sunny shores!
Here is a little rainy day pick me up for everyone. Beachy bridal party plans just got hotter!

Our friends at Beach Riot have launched their Bridal Collection. Insanely hot swimwear for the bride to be and all her bridebabes. We are loving the intricate and detailed pieces for the brides and fun florals for her gals.

Let's get through this rainy day together. Just imagine, a glass of pale pink rose, crystal clear beaches, and all your bests, in these amazing bikinis and one pieces. Can't wait for the tropical wedding plans to come.
Don't forget a cute towel from Beach Bum Towel Co.!

Tell us about your beachy destination wedding dreams below or send us a quick e-mail. We would love to chat!

Hi, everyone! Happy Monday to you all! We have so many exciting things coming up. Starting today, the Bustle blog will be posting a lot more regularly with fun and interactive content. This is major happiness for us, because the Bustle team is continuing to expand.

We wanted to start this week off with wedding etiquette. As the wedding season is making its way through, a lot of our brides are currently in the phase of paper design and collaborating with their favorite paper vendor. We have the absolute pleasure of working with so many fantastic paper designers -  one in particular, Alexandra Rinde, she is the owner of Aerialist Press. Her team put together a fantastic tool to help our brides and grooms make easy decisions about their wedding suites.

"Happy Engagement season! Alexandra from Aerialist Press & Foiled Invitations here. A big thank you to the Bustle Events team for having us guest post with them today. 

You’ve found your dream venue, and planning is in full effect! Bustle Events is readily starting to form your dream team of vendors and the to-dos seem to be quickly checked off. As the time line starts to narrow down a little further, lots of detailed questions start to pop up. We can probably guess what one is! How to word my wedding invitation? Did we guess it? No worries, we’ve all been there and will happily help you decide. 

Our creative team of paper designers and etiquette aficionados simplified the process by producing an info-graphic and guide to help aide you and your fiancé in selecting the appropriate wording that best fits your wedding yet stays on par with all the fancy etiquette rules. We also listed a helpful set of tips and tricks to shine a little light on what the different attire options are, and the best way to send out your wedding invitations. 

Looking for even more? We created a full list of 21 wording examples for every celebration style you can imagine. You can take a peek at the mega post up on”>the Aerialist blog. We are also happy to answer any other questions you might have in the comments!"

Thank you for reading today! We hope your Monday is a great first day of an amazing week! 
XOXO Bustle

We can't believe this year has ended so quickly. The year of 2016 brought us amazing clients who have become friends, major inspirational wedding designs, and the most epic parties ever! We were blessed to be featured again on multiple major wedding blogs over the months, crafted our buns off, and consumed endless amounts of caffeine but it was all worth it for the beauty and happiness that resulted.

Other big things that happened was that Erin started her own luxury beach towel company called Beach Bum Towel Co. If you haven't gotten one yet, you're missing out! Makes for the perfect gift and excuse to splurge for yourself.

Marina made the big jump across the Pacific and moved to Hawaii! We're thrilled to have expanded as she'll now be doing events both in the islands and back in California. She started a rental company there called Roam Rentals, which has taken off with the demand for boho and mid-century modern designed furniture and décor.

Enjoy a look back at some of our all time faves from this past year. SO good people!

1. #funkyfreshattheparker with Karli + Todd was the most fun. Ever! Photos by Heather Kinkaid

2. Kellie + Jake featured on Green Wedding Shoes: Photos by Katie Prichard

3. Lena + Will featured on Style Me Pretty:  Photos by Jessica Burke

4. Rachel + James in Kailua, HI: Photos by Ashley Goodwin

There's no telling what 2017 is going to be bring, but we've already begun booking some crazy awesome clients. Cheers darlings!


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It seemed like a long time coming, but it is finally here! Winter has arrived and we couldn't be more excited. There is something so comforting about the fall season that makes you want to warm up next to the fire with your sweetie and drink hot apple cider. 

That is exactly what we had in mind for the upcoming season. We wanted to share some of our favorite ways to keep warm and cozy at a beautifully brisk wedding. Hope these fun ideas get you feeling warm and fuzzy!

roasting marshmallows and sparklers  

As we all can imagine what better way to stay toasty than a nice crackling fire, with smores to boot! For your marshmallow roasting tools, take a little wander through the woods and forage for some quality mallow roasting sticks. Since we're all about the details, don't forget to wrap some string around the bottom to act as an accented cohesive handle and a nice pop of color. 

DIY marshmallow sticks for the wedding reception/bonfire. The colours could be customized for any pallet.:   

Always have to have some cozy blankets and pillows to keep guests warm; which is also a great opportunity to add some fun patterns and textures to the wedding design.
Check out the fun DIY for hand warmers too, such a cute little detail that guest will definitely appreciate.

regardsetmaisons: Inspiration week-end:

Fabrics from | X Homestyle Magazine - Moroccan Backyard Firepit:
Make these adorable hand warmers!:

Last but not least, creating a signature cocktail is always a fun way to express the bride and groom's personalities, but try cranking up the heat with some signature hot toddies using seasonal flavors instead.

Hot Buttered Fig + Rosemary Bourbon Cider recipe by Beth Kirby | west elm:
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2016's color selection may be my most favorite yet! In case you missed the big announcement, here it is! Rose Quartz and Serentity... Swoon! Totally reminds me of cotton candy sunsets and it's such a universal wedding palette. Desert Palm Springs wedding? Duh! Napa, Wine Country Wedding? Yes! Coastal beach wedding? Obviously!

Can't wait to see if any of our brides jump on the Pantone train this year, we'd love to make some Rose Quartz and Serenity Magic with you!

Lee_Eisemann Pantone Color of the Year 2016 ROSE QUARTZ & SERENITY
AuthorMarina Tolentino
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After a long week of a Thanksgiving festivities full of gratitude, it is finally time to start decking the halls! The holidays are here again and we are ready to dive into our holiday crafting frenzy. To get us all started here is a little wreath inspo to get your front door looking fresh and festive. Most importantly, don't forget to have some hot toddies simmering on the stove to really experience the holiday fun in all its wintery glory! Enjoy!

We've noticed a new trend of floral bridesmaids dresses this year and we hope it sticks around for next wedding season. Love it with all the gals in the same print but different cuts, or mixing things up with different prints and shapes. It's a nice change from the standard convertible bridesmaids dresses, because honestly, who wants to spend 30 minutes trying to wrap and tie their dress? Plus, we just have a crush on floral anything so this trend is a no-brainer!

AuthorMarina Tolentino
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I think one of the most exciting things about first being married is sending out your first Christmas cards with a beautiful photo from your wedding. I know just the place to find top quality fun and easy Christmas cards... Minted! Yes! I use Minted and I love their selection from something fun and quirky or a beautiful traditional style. This year is no different. Check out these perfect newlywed cards. Which is your fav? And... I am so excited to offer one of our readers $50 off Minted.
All you have to do is comment on this post with your fav Christmas tradition:) This giveaway ends Nov. 11th at 12:00am pst. I will announce the winner on Nov. 12th.(Make sure to leave your email address with your comment) Good Luck!!!!

These are a few of our favorites.

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In case you missed it, here's a recap of one of our favorite weddings this year that was featured on Green Wedding Shoes last week. Emma and Dan are seriously the sweetest couple and we had a blast from the start with them. With some unexpected pink tapered candles, and rad dance floor decal, this wedding was everything that Bustle Events is all about. Shotgun Floral killed it with the flowers as usual and we couldn't have been happier with how our design came to life.

photography: OneLove Photography // venue: Private Estate in California // wedding design + coordination: Erin Taylor of Bustle Events // hair + makeup: Artistry by Danika // cake: Sweetie Pies // catering: Preferred Sonoma Caterers // videography: Wellspun Weddings // band: Pacific Soul Band // 
dress designer: Theia

 // florals: Shotgun Floral Studio // groom’s attire: Hugo Boss // bridesmaids dresses designer: BCBG // shoes: Stuart Weitzman // 
stationery:Underwood Letterpress // veil + accessories: A Stitch in Time // rentals: La Tavola
AuthorMarina Tolentino
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Today we're sharing even more breathtaking photos from our Joshua Tree Desert styled shoot. 100 Layer Cake recently featured it here. Be sure to watch the video, it's one of my faves!

This shoot was so much fun to plan. Working with rich marsala and turquoise colors was a nice refreshing change from the typical pastels and gold seen in most weddings. Our models were a dream to work with! So much chemistry... the desert is already hot, but they made it smokin'!

The design for this shoot would be perfect for any Fall or Winter wedding, and really any time of year in Southern California. We loved using the hint of cultural inspiration with the native american ojo de dios and the brides shawl (it's actually a table runner!). Kristine Ann wrote out a really sweet Indian prayer that could have been used during a ceremony for vows.

Our creative juices were overflowing with this styled shoot. Amanda from Thorne Artistry created not one, but three looks! How sexy are those bikini shots?

 I'm already itching to get back to the desert for our next Palm Springs wedding this October. There's just nothing like that beautiful desert landscape!

Photography: The Hearts Haven / Videography: Amanda Madeline / Location: Joshua Tree / Design & Coordination: Bustle Events / Hair, Makeup, & Wardrobe Styling: Thorne Artistry / Floral Design: Leaf it to Lexi / Calligraphy & Paper Details: KAKalligraphy / Catering: Waters Fine Foods & Catering / Rentals:Archive Rentals / Skull: Child of Wild / Jewelry: Erin Fader & Shel. Couture
AuthorMarina Tolentino
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We know that planning a wedding comes with a bajillion other events as well. There's an engagement party, bridal shower or two, bachelorette party, bachelor party, welcome dinner, rehearsal dinner, wedding, and even a possible post wedding brunch and more! With the best intentions to attend everything for your favorite couple it can be easy to RSVP yes to it all, even when deep down that real chance is less than 10% you'll actually show up. Pure Wow came up with fun list of things we're all guilty of when it comes to RSVP's. Give your hosts some peace of mind by being honest with yourself and others if you'll really show your pretty face to the next event you're invited to.

8 RSVP Mistakes You Need to Stop Making


Also known as the aspirational RSVP. Sure, you earned points for the fastest reply time (and, come on, general enthusiasm), but speed doesn’t count if you bail.
8 RSVP Mistakes You Need to Stop Making


“Kids don’t impact the head count,” you say. Maybe not, but an uninvited crying toddler sure does impact the fun. Bottom line: Give the hostess a heads-up, mmkay?
8 RSVP Mistakes You Need to Stop Making


Look, the person who brought the chips was counting on you, and now everyone has to eat naked Tostitos. Hope you’re happy.
8 RSVP Mistakes You Need to Stop Making


You’re a grown-ass woman. At least bring a bottle of wine.
8 RSVP Mistakes You Need to Stop Making


Too many cooks + the kitchen = RSVP fail.
8 RSVP Mistakes You Need to Stop Making


We get it, Ms. Popular. You’re double-booked. No need to rub our faces in it.
8 RSVP Mistakes You Need to Stop Making


OK, so you’re avoiding carbs this month. Eat around them.
8 RSVP Mistakes You Need to Stop Making


Ah, the weekend waffler. You know who you are.
AuthorMarina Tolentino
Looking for somewhere to escape over the summer and enjoy some hot desert sun? We're big fans of the Westin Lake Las Vegas and we know you'll love it as much as we do. We recently had the chance for a mini getaway there and didn't want to come home! The views are gorgeous, the spa a delight, and of course we spent the majority of the day poolside with a cocktail in hand. Can't beat that! Be sure keep this place in mind for you next vacation.

But even better is this amazing hotel as a wedding venue. The ceremony space overlooks this beautiful lake. The hotel offers many different spaces for ceremony, cocktail hour and reception. With so many options you can really make your wedding fit your own guest count and style. When I toured the property my creative mind went wild with ideas.

Lastly, they have a killer spa on property where I indulged in a little me time and enjoyed an amazing massage. I think it was one of the best I've ever had. The spa is a great amenity to offer your guests.

If you are thinking of a desert wedding the Westin Lake Las Vegas is full of awesome options.

AuthorMarina Tolentino
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